So I wasn't going to post anything today cause I am lazy, reeling from a fun
evening out (into the wee hours) with some friends. But then I saw this
Balmain show and it perked me up. Like a lot. Yes yes- it was almost a week
ago that this show went down (forgive the slow mo reporting), but good Lord
these clothes are fucking delicious and have no expiration date. If I could
eat them I would. And if I could wear them? Well, I'd do that too. Total
ridiculously rock star hotness on a Friday afternoon in Boulder, Colorado.


I am pondering the death of Corey Haim and feeling super bummed about it. A
lot of kids from my generation didn't make it- Hollywood fucked them up and
for that I am immensely sad. Corey was a dreamboat while I was growing up,
as was a young River Phoenix. I'm brewing up a true 80s post for tomorrow
but for today here is the album art and song list from "The Lost Boys"
soundtrack, which I was completely obsessed with back in the day (the film
features an unforgettable singing bathtub performance by young Corey) .
Jason Patric looking pretty fetch on the cover too...as well as a young Jami
Gertz and snarly Kiefer. Go forth and download somehwere...it's a gem.

The New Factory

More than a wink or a nod to Avedon's famous shots of Warhol's Factory
posse- more like a downright homage. Check out Mikael Jansson's photos in
this month's "Interview" magazine story on designer Alexander Wang. I love
love love Alexander Wang- he'd be my default designer in a desert island
scenario, if the desert island was urban, gritty, raw, and tough. (The
island of Manhattan perhaps?)

These kids look gorgeous and cool and sexy, much like the original Factory
posse shot back in the day by the one and only Avedon- check out his photo
(last one attached). History always repeats itself when it comes to fashion-
that's one of the reasons I love it so- it's fun to catch the references
each season, as the players change and the "it" crowd gets younger and
sexier, the respect for the heroes and original tastemakers remain. The one
constant is that cool is timeless, and these new photos capture that
perfectly. Awesome.

Oscar Fashion Round up

Happy Monday to you all...in what is the Super Bowl of movie star fashion,
the Oscars were a good game, but will not go down as one of the memorable
events of the sport of fashion. There were some standout looks for sure, and
I am LOVING the return of some curves to the red carpet and the return of
the hourglass silhouette in general with less skeletors. (Except for James
Cameron's wife- she really should eat something and maybe put on a little
eyeliner). It was a night of strapless and more strapless (all that Santa
Monica yoga paid off in spades), and old glamour had a real moment on the
crimson carpet this year. Overall, the stars did not disappoint, though I
sort of miss the wackiness of Oscars past...where is the Cher in Bob Mackie?
The Lara Flynn Boyle as crazed Lolita Ballerina? Well at least we had Babs
in a crazy lace ascot and tux- what was that about? Anyway, let's do the
fashion roll call here...very bummed nobody did McQueen...was counting on that.

Zoe Saldana- Zoe is a fashion girl through and through- she has real fun
with clothes and a passion for couture. This Givenchy confection did not
disappoint, loved loved the colors, the shoes, the beautiful work on the top
half of the dress. Just stunning beyond belief- she has an amazing body for
clothes and she never disappoints. Love her confidence- if it was possible
to make a showstopper dress like this feel subtle, she did so through her
elegance and grace.

Carey Mulligan- Good on you, Carey. Your Prada number suited your vaguely
retro, Mia Farrow vibe, but also looked comfortable and fun without being
stiff or serious. I would rock this dress in a heartbeat. Expect loads of
copies of this look.

Demi Moore- Atelier Versace. Gorgeous. She looked like dessert. In a good
way. I wonder if Rachel Zoe is still dressing her?

Kate Winslet- Hmm. I was not a huge fan of this one- yes it was pretty and
elegant and sophisticated but it was so so boring. Also sort of felt mother
of the bridey/wedding matron to me. YSL is gorgeous and so is Kate, but
think she could have done better, even if this was not really her night in
terms of Oscar nods.

Sandra Bullock- You already know how I feel about this chick. She's fun. She
likes to eat burgers. She simply looks better in jeans than this silver
Marchesa- yes the hair was pretty, the red lip classic, and the dress
stunning. But I still feel she looks out of place in fancy clothes- would
much rather see her in a strong silhouette a la Donna Karan than super girly
dresses. I may be in the minority here, but I find Marchesa overrated. Just
not a huge fan- a bit too girly and princessy for my tastes.

Rachel McAdams- Rachel looked amazing in Elie Saab- this dress was all that-
looked comfortable, loved the ruching up top, loved the folky glam vibe of
it- she looked fab. What a gorgeous girl.

Cameron Diaz- I always look forward to Cameron's dresses. I love her quirky
California, laid back fun style. Have always loved her for it but this dress
felt way too traditional for her. Yes Oscar is an amazing designer, but for
the ladies who lunch set- I like when Cameron goes more boho. Not a fan.

Kristin Stewart- Oh my. Kristin looked stunning in this Monique Lhullier
gown- navy color was gorgeous and her bod looked incredible. Still she
looked like she wanted to throw up the whole time- just wish she would enjoy
herself more. She is such a Debbie Downer- in a dress like that, she had
reason to smile.

Jenny from the block- Gorgeous in Armani Prive. Not really my kind of
dress- so hard to wear and very structured, but she rocked it. That straight
neckline on strapless not so easy either, but she gave great dress last
night- plain and simple.

Meryl Streep- Who is cooler than Meryl? That woman is a blessing. She wore a
dress that suited her in every way- designed by Chris March of "Project
Runway" fame. I loved the ease of this dress- to me, fashion is about
wearing clothes that make you feel beautiful yes, but also highlight your
best features and allow you to feel comfortable in your own skin. Meryl, I
love you. You know who you are and you are a true inspiration.

Miley Cyrus- OK this dress by Jenny Peckham was really something. Her bod
looked gorgeous. The dress was very high style with its lingerie/corseted
bodice (lingerie a big trend for spring) and flowy skirt. But still- this
girl is wayyyy too young to wear clothes like this- you need to earn a dress
like this, and I felt the top was way tight. And she is beyond annoying so
really hard to embrace her in the fashion world or any other place for that

Amanda Seyfried- This girl had an amazing Armani Prive on- but that straight
strapless neckline felt a little too Elizabethan for me- more like a costume
than event dressing. And she takes herself wayyyy too seriously- felt like
this was her "serious actress" dress and that's why it didn't really work
for me. Yes the dress was special, but didn't move me.

Diane Kruger- I heart you, DK in your haute couture Chanel. This girl is
built for fashion and has so much fun with it- she was able to carry this
tricky dress with so much style and ease- just love her look and her love
for clothes always comes through on the red carpet. Some found it
overwrought, but I loved it.

SJP- Of all the dresses SJP- this one? Really? I felt this dress overpowered
her- the hair was kind of fun, but why did she need all this dress? She is
so teeny tiny- why would she need all of "this"? Can you imagine having
every designer at your disposal and being able to wear whatever you want and
you wear this? Ech. No.

Big shout out to Nicole Richie in that pretty vintage dress I would just
love to wear- girl knows her style inside and out and rocked it last night
for sure. I love an evening gown that slips on like that- the type of dress
you can rock barefoot. Love love love. She is an amazing style star and
loved that she was only showing some back- shows how you can be kind of

All in all, I say Meryl, Rachel, and Zoe rocked it the hardest...hope you
enjoyed watching- the show was beyond a clunker but its really all about the
fashion, n'est ce pas? XO

Bring on the Oscars

Happy Oscar eve, friends. I will be watching from my hotel room in
Colorado...not having Tivo tonight stresses me out, but alas I will make the
best of it. Still going to get some champagne, some takeout Chinese as per
tradition, and laze about in my favorite pajamas. I am most excited to see
what Zoe Saldana and Carey Mulligan wear, as they are two fashion standouts
who always get it right (even if Carey ignores the advice of one Anna
Wintour). And then there's Sandra Bullock, who always looks meh to me even
in the best dresses...what's that all about? Wondering who is going to wear
McQueen on the red carpet ce soir. If I was walking the crimson, I would
most definitely wear McQueen, most likely vintage.

You all have a lovely night in front of the telly- hopefully glamour will be
in full effect in Lalaland tonight. XO

Loving this look for spring

Happy Friday, mon chers. There's rumor of spring coming- time for a fresh
outlook, a new romanticism, and a fresh pedi. I've been reviewing all the
great looks for spring and Givenchy's striped blazer and unstructured pant
is the look that's most present for me- if there is such a thing as mindful
dressing, Riccardo Tisci is most enlightened. Of all the images from the
spring mags, this look sticks in my mind- I can see it being copied in all
the usual spots (H&M, Zara, Forever 21) and I can see myself wearing it to a
regatta somewhere along the Thames, with a black minidress packed in my
purse (to throw under the jacket) for a warm evening's dinner somewhere
breezy and laid back.

I like the nod to menswear/boarding school prep, the nautical and whimsical
feel of the stripe, and the slouchy ease that says spring is in the air. As
you do your spring cleaning/purging, clear some space in your closet for
some version of this look- it's time to put some stripe in your spring.


Remember that poignant moment wherein Joan Crawford Dunaway, in a manic
rage, asks poor Christina to bring mommy the ax as she tears through her
Brentwood garden in the amazing "Mommy Dearest"? If I had an ax to grind or
a child to terrify, this would be my ax of choice, hands down. Naturally,
it's sold exclusively at Jack Spade, and made in NYC by Best Made Co. - an
ax made in Manhattan is grounds for buying alone (not a lot of wood chopping
there as far as I recall). The red, pink, and orange handle is a bonus. You
will be the envy of chic lumberjacks and manic depressive movie actresses
the world over- enjoy.



Have no idea why surf culture is top of mind as I sit here in Colorado but
thinking about the awesome Taschen book on Bunker Spreckels I bought last
time I was in LA. Bunker was the ultimate surfer playboy whose life of
excess came to a halt at that epic age of 27 (if you are a follower of rock
legends and the like, many many burned out at this exact same point in
life). He was Clark Gable's stepson and heir to a vast sugar fortune. Bunker lived
fast and was the ultimate hedonist- taking in the Cali surf scene but also
traveling the world, always with a gorgeous babe by his side. The story of
his life is pretty fascinating- the wild California playboy who lived too
"much" may seem clichéd now, but this cat set the tone for such pursuits and
looked pretty cool doing it. He even created an alter ego for himself so
photographers and reporters could chronicle his debauchery. Check out
"Bunker 77", a documentary which came out in 2008 which is amazing. A
raucous life cut way too short, but a pretty incredible existence none the

Agreeing to disagree

Spring is on the way and like many of you, I look forward to opening my
mailbox for the March Vogue. Reading mags can prove daunting during the week
so thankfully I was able to fully absorb the goodness on the Vogue pages
while in the friendly skies last night. (The Meisel story is to die for

Having my husband next to me as I pored through had me thinking about what I
like versus what he likes on the fashion front. I tend to embrace the
general fashion truths but twist them a bit- I may do a bit classic but with
a little bohemian, tough with a little sweet, or just basic black with a few
doo dads so people won't think I'm a roadie on some Cure reunion tour. In
general though, I have a lot of fun with seasonal trends but know my style
DNA and body type well enough to know what works.

None of that matters to men really. Often my husband questions how it is
possible for me to buy yet another black dress and how one is any different
from the others. He doesn't understand the Zara one is different than the no
name vintage mini which is different yet again from the basic James Perse
maxi model. We girls understand such things- the subtle nod of an
interesting neckline, the cut of a bias, the flow of supima cotton. I
always felt that a wardrobe of perfect black dresses is really all you need
to achieve that chic jetsetter thing- the fallen heiress on permanent
holiday if you will with about ten black shifts, all of varying weights and
fabrics. Wearing a black dress is like wearing a blank canvas- anything is
possible really when you are appropriately clad for most situations. (This
ideal does not work that well in Miami though. I tried very hard to embrace
full color when I moved there but often felt not myself. Once in a while I
rock color, but don't make a daily habit of it).

Many men find the harem pant trend ridiculous, though I am presenting
evidence to the contrary (see photos). Most men don't want their women to
look like they are wearing a diaper, at least not in public anyway. (I don't
know what you are all into in your spare time...) To me, these pants can be
really chic when worn with the right stuff on top and some good shoes. It's
all about proportion. I like the urban uniform feel of them and the ease of
mobility they provide.

Most dudes I know don't get the gladiator sandal thing either, and my very
own boo seemed dumbfounded by my "Jesus sandals" when I first rocked them a
couple of seasons ago. I get how the Jesus analogy may not translate as chic
or sexy, but most girls I know were immediate disciples of the shoe, whether
they were religious or not is highly irrelevant.

Mixed prints or loud prints in general throw most men off- to them it may
read too "wacky". Admittedly this trend can be tricky to pull off, but I
love the whimsy of it and it takes a true style star to make it all work. I
think loud prints can recall Mrs. Roper, though the chattiest patterns make
me feel happy and a bit eccentric, which for all accounts and purposes I am.
Prints are fun for a change and show you have some real style cajones.

Speaking of Audra Lindley and fashion cajones, let's move on to the caftan.
Not exactly a male magnet. I love a caftan because I am a fan of the boho
gypset ideal- and I also love to feel free and unfettered- it's liberating.
I am not one for heavily structured clothes that are at all uncomfortable-
being flowy feels sexy and feminine to me- I like to feel at ease in my
clothes, not like I am being tortured by them. To most men though, a caftan
is part Mrs. Roper part Bea Arthur part Boca bubby. None terribly sexy for
the most part, unless you are into post menopausal sitcom stars of the 70s
or find mahjong a fantastic form of foreplay. In its defense, the caftan can
be super hot when rocked over some tan limbs and tousled hair- look no
further than style icon Talitha Getty back in the day, lazing on some
rooftop in Morocco, in a drug soaked sultry haze. Bea Arthur she was not.

Many say women dress for other women, and not for men. I'm not sure that is
exactly true. I do think about the types of clothes my husband likes when I
am shopping, but it's certainly not going to stop me from buying a vintage
caftan, or another black dress (an intervention may be in order on that
front). In general, I dress to make myself feel good and am really never
worried about what my girlfriends think (my gay male friends are a
completely different story however). My man is down with my love for fashion
and the joy it provides as I gasp over the new Balmain collection for spring
(OMG too much to bear).

And he has his own weaknesses when it comes to how he likes to dress- I
often wonder why he needs another vintage tee shirt but he loves them the
way I love my LBDs. And his heart pounds at the sight of a sky blue '72
Impala the way mine races at the newest bag from Lanvin. We all have our
things really. If we can meet in the middle, then we have common ground.
After all, I can very easily picture myself in a funky Pucci print, head on
the shoulder of my beloved as we cruise around in the Impala in some desert
locale. I may wear the dress for me and he may drive the car for him, but we
can find happiness in each other and that's what really counts. (That and a
good handbag.) And when you are comfortable in your own skin and your own clothes, isn't
that sexiest of all?